June 2010

Temps de Flors Girona

in festival, flower, Girona, may, original

FOR nine days in May the northern Spanish city of Girona becomes a giant garden with a wealth of scent and colours as it celebrates the festival of ‘Temps de Flors’.

The fiesta, now in its 49th year, sees traditional and innovative displays of flowers and plants in dozens of locations.

Based mainly in the old town, the festival includes monuments, churches, as well as public and private gardens and patios.

Whether you are a keen flower arranger or not the festival is well worth a visit as the doors to some of the most beautiful buildings in the city are opened to the public for these few days. And, if like me, you’re a bit of a nosy parker, it’s the perfect excuse to have a look around.

The neverending playroom

in children, organised, playroom, tidy, toys

A couple of winters ago we enclosed part of an upstairs terrace to make a playroom. After an ongoing saga of leaking roofs , badly-installed air-conditioning units and an unlevelled floor, I may finally be able to exile all the toys upstairs and reclaim the living room. 

But will it be the answer to my prayers? Or will it just be a dumping ground for my daughters’ junk? 

When we decided to enclose the terrace it seemed so simple, the perfect solution to our toy invasion problem. Now, I’m the first to admit that I’m rather lacking in the tidiness department, something I personally put down to being English. (It seems to me that as a nation the Spanish, and here I’m talking about the girls, are much tidier than their British counterparts.) Obviously living in Spain, surrounded by house-proud mothers I do try, but it’s just not in my DNA. I’m also a terrible hoarder, saving egg boxes to make space rockets or crocodiles, plastic trays to use as painting pallets or any shiny paper for ‘sticking’. 

The end of the never-ending playroom

in order, organise, playroom, surprise, toys

We finally finished our new playroom at the weekend and I am still in shock at what a difference it has made to the whole house and its inhabitants.

Almost two years since we began closing off part of an upstairs terrace it was finished in just a weekend.

 Once the men came and laid the floor the change was instant, then Juan set about putting up the storage units while the girls and I began sorting the toys. I collected toys from all over the house; from cupboards, from the sitting room, from under beds, from everywhere. The battle against the toys, which had been the bane of my life for the past four years, was coming to a climax.

In just a couple of hours we had all the toys regimented into their own boxes and put away.

Seafood trail of the Costa Brava

in Cadaques, L'Escala, Llafranc, Palamos, Pals

The Costa Brava is one of the most unspoilt of Spain’s Costas thanks to its rugged nature which rather inhibits building blocks of hotels. With so many little coves and bays hidden away there is always somewhere to explore. The climate of the Costa Brava in summer is less oppressive than other parts of the peninsular and in winter the sun still shines to cheer away those winter blues. This is my favourite part of Spain. The beaches are great for families and although the region doesn’t have an Ibiza party scene, there are a few spots to go for a bit of nightlife.

Along the Costa Brava, which means rugged or wild coast, are numerous little villages where, for centuries, the main income was fishing. This traditional link with the sea continues today and what better way to enjoy a plate of grilled sardines or a bowl of muscles than by sitting looking out to sea with the smell of the sea air and the sound of waves. Catherine Dolan goes in search of some of the most idyllic locations.

We start in the north at Cadaqués.

Learning to be bored

in bored, entertainment, holidays, summer

 

This Friday school finishes for the summer which means more time at home and more hours to fill.

So what to do with the children during these extra hours?

The temptation is to hide indoors from the sun and let them watch more television. But the little voice inside my head will be whispering ‘Bad mother! Why do you have children if it’s just to sit them in front of the goggle box for hours on end?’

Another option is for them to have a siesta, but my daughters grew out of naps years ago and whenever I’ve tried to re-instigate a little midday lie down it has always been a total disaster. And even if I did get them to sleep for a bit, they’d be up until midnight, which would surely be worse. In an attempt to get them to sleep one day last summer I actually put them into the car and took them for a drive, hoping the movement would rock them to sleep.

Needless to say this did not happen but we did have a very nice excursion visiting a castle in a nearby village.

So, back to my dilemma of entertaining a four and a five-year-old in the midday heat.

To know or not to know

in Baby dilemma

Tomorrow I have the 20-week scan when, apart from checking the overall health of my baby, I can also find out if I'm expecting a boy or a girl.  With both my daughters I opted not to know the sex and had two lovely surprises. I think it certainly made the birth more exciting.

Rather like opening a surprise Christmas present instead of something you’ve asked for. I didn't actually feel tempted to find out on either occasion and having recently arrived in Spain from the UK, where a fair amount of people choose not to know, it felt quite normal.

This time, however, I’ve been living Spain for a few years now, and I'm starting to think I might do things the Spanish way......I don't know a single person here who didn't know the sex of their baby before the birth. Even the royal family find out, they just keep it a royal secret until the birth.   From a practical point of view of course there is much to be said for knowing the sex of the baby. If I find out then I’ll only have to lug half the baby stuff home, either the bag of pink clothes or the bag of blue.

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